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Old 07-11-2011, 04:13 PM   #1
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Hi All,

New to the forum, first post. 2nd will follow shortly but first I need advice on a thai girl I am 'seeing'.

I've recently met a thai girl. Met her in a bar she isn't a "bar-girl" but worked in one of the less sleazy irish bars in thailand; which is where I hung out to avoid being hassled by bar girls funnily enough.

Anyway I hadn't spoken to her before but one night she offered me some nuts, the girl who was serving me all those nights said "She likes you" and one thing led to another. She was shy at first didnt want me holding her hand etc then started grabbing my arm in public, acted shy in bed at first asked me why I had condoms ready etc then after our first night together she changed into a nymphomaniac; even did some barebacking (while drunk regretfully).

She's 32/33; I'm 30. Got a kid back in the stix in Isaan or Somui who is raised by her mother. She speaks ok english keeps txting me saying she loves me, wants me inside her and now wants to go Phuket for a week when I return. She asked me for money once, I gave her 50. I've asked if she wants money since she says no.

She used to insist I tip every thai person who served us to which was bloody annoying truth be told because I don't like to tip unless i feel the need to.

Had a great time with her too but I must confess I also like being independent as well.

Is she genuine or not do you think? I would appreciate opinions because im going back for 3 weeks and will spend 7 - 10 days with her and i don't want to waste my holiday if she's defrauding me.

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Old 07-11-2011, 04:42 PM   #2
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Read the guide to thai girls.

http://www.pattaya-revealed.com/showthread.php?t=14388
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I did take a look at that....saw many similarities which scared the shit outta me and caused me to make the post.

I can't imagine she'd be lying to me at her age and position in life
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Some girls are there to take you for everything you can give others don't but they do want the security it can be a very fine line.
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Is she genuine or not do you think?

It's too early to say if she is sincere or not. Girls who don't ask for money are usually biding their time and working a longer term plan - i.e. reel you in at the beginning and then hit you up for sponsorship money etc once you're smitten.

Keep in mind that she's over 30 and will be looking for someone who can provide financial security. She probably sees you as a good long term prospect. Also, keep in mind that she has a kid and you don't yet know the full extent of her "baggage".

I would say, meet her again, go with the flow and enjoy it........but keep your guard up and don't make any commitments or false promises.

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She used to insist I tip every thai person who served us
I've had that before and it's quite a common reaction from someone working in a service industry

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I can't imagine she'd be lying to me at her age and position in life
You'd better believe it. Thai's are capable of quite breathtaking deceit - particularly those working in and around the sleazy night-life areas.
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I've recently met a thai girl. Met her in a bar she isn't a "bar-girl" but worked in one of the less sleazy irish bars in thailand; which is where I hung out to avoid being hassled by bar girls funnily enough.

Mate she works in a bar and nailed a falang (you).
Trust me. You wouldn't have been the first. She's a bar girl.
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Mate she works in a bar and nailed a falang (you).
Trust me. You wouldn't have been the first. She's a bar girl.
Asking Mirkwood for advice on Thai girls is the same as asking Michael Barrymore for swimming lessons or Rupert Murdoch on what would be the best pay as you go mobile.

Generally the best advice is to do exactly opposite what Mirkwood advises and you won't be far away.
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At 30 yr-old she's almost certainly looking for a 'keeper'.

You, on the other hand, have 20 years of serious mongering ahead of you.

Spend a week with her by all means. But keep it on a professional level; don't make promises you can't keep. At the end of the week pay her generously and go get a soapie.

If you think you like her, buy her some gold. Next time you visit, ask to see it. If she's still got it, maybe she's a keeper too.
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At 30 yr-old she's almost certainly looking for a 'keeper'.

You, on the other hand, have 20 years of serious mongering ahead of you.

Spend a week with her by all means. But keep it on a professional level; don't make promises you can't keep. At the end of the week pay her generously and go get a soapie.

If you think you like her, buy her some gold. Next time you visit, ask to see it. If she's still got it, maybe she's a keeper too.
All valid points. I agree she's 30+ so is maybe looking for a keeper which is good for me I guess. I think I'll go for the gold idea that's pretty sound and I won't be back for 6 months at least.

I'm off in a week's time. I will keep you lads updated.
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