Not Amercan but I have been married to a Thai girl for 14 years ish. Not ever a bar girl. She worked in admin at a US owned electronics company.
In fact she is not a Thai now but British and her Thai passport is out of date. She says she isnt Thai but English !!
My advice to anyone considering a cross cultural relatinship is the same.
Make sure you know the girl properly and make sure she knows you. You have to talk. If thats difficult its not the time.
I was lucky my wife had great English but even then there is issues of cultural expectations.
The first month was heaven the next two difficult but when she got a job and started to understand the Uk she just went from strength to strength.
I would have more trouble marrying an American.
Cant stand eating with the fork in the right hand its disgusting.
Dont worry about books. They are not a useful source for basing your behaviour on.
A bit like the Koran and the Bible.
If we all followed them the streets would be running in blood.
Last edited by fearules : 04-21-2011 at 07:11 PM.
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