Charlie.

Dont get lulled into false sense of security. Rolands mentally challenged.

I reckon that applies to most of us on this board. Will the sane ones among us please identify themselves?

That would be me then............. dancing

There is so much to read on this topic,

My advise is unless you are in Thailand keep this situation cool, it will just do your head in otherwise. Keep busy stay in basic contact and then see how things go when you get back.
10 months is a long long time in the life of a bargirl, be prepared for upset and shock.